Alex enjoys helping couples grow closer than ever! Couples who have experienced Alex’s Hold Me Tight® Couples Workshop over the past few years have said:

“The EFT approach is easy to identify with. I would recommend it for anyone in a relationship of any kind. A workshop helps couples see they are not alone.”  – E.P.

“I was surprised and grateful to find that my partner and I could deepen our conversations and thus our relationship in this format. I highly recommend this.” – K.G.

“Even after almost 30 years of marriage, at this seminar my husband and I learned vital things about each other. In particular, ‘Hold Me Tight’ gave my husband the framework and vocabulary to express emotions and needs that he had not previously shared or even been aware of.”  – Participant

“This was a valuable experience for us as a couple, and the material helped us grow and understand each other’s needs, feelings and to love each other more.” – A.

“Alex’s approach to the Hold Me Tight program and his genuine concern for equipping couples with the tools to make changes in their relationship is incredible. He has provided my wife and I with the ability to openly talk about and repair our marriage. We realize that each day will be its own challenge AND reward. We are grateful for this experience. THANK YOU!” – Corey & Melissa

“It forces you to take the issues between you and actually talk about them with tools to solve them and not just walk away. It creates intimacy through effective communication.” – K.M.

“This program presented a fresh perspective or lens for approaching some of the most difficult and sensitive issues in our lives. It was presented in a very transparent and encouraging way.” – E.M. & B.S.

“The Hold Me Tight Workshop gave us hope for the future. Learning what triggers our emotions and recognizing the patterns of our disagreements taught us how to effectively work through tough times while preserving the connection we share.” J.M.

“Many couples stay stuck for months or years and give up. This workshop teaches you that hopelessness is temporary, and with new knowledge you can change the course of your relationship forever. Thanks Alex, Jenni, Jarod!” – Chad

“I was happy about the wealth of information provided and how well the program flowed. I was given insight into my partner’s feelings, and I will now be able to better understand her while working toward peace and harmony in our relationship.”  – Ben

“I came into this program wondering if I was even going to stay in my relationship with Ben. I had lost hope. Now I am so inspired by our future together! I feel a relaxed confidence about “US” and I’m intrigued to find out more about the man I love.” – Shannon

“This is an excellent program designed to help couples maintain and enhance the things that caused them to fall in love the first time.” – Participant

“This [workshop] has empowered my wife and I to break down the barriers needed to emotionally connect and find the root problems in our marriage and how to fix them.” – Brandon

“This weekend has been huge. We are newly married and it’s helping us lay a strong foundation, breaking bad habits and forming good ones. This was a breakthrough in many ways.” – Sarah

“Alex really sees people as valuable and it shows that he cares. I feel valued because so many ways he showed he cared from greetings, hosting, and sharing his wisdom and insights in humility!”  – SK

“This program opened my eyes to the emotional component of our relationship that prior to I didn’t know existed and how to express mine and listen to that of my partner.” – J.E.

“Hold Me Tight enabled me and my husband to break through defensive walls and years of hurt so that we could begin to dialogue and understand each other better. I highly recommend  for any and every couple no matter what stage of marriage (or courtship) they are in.” – Participant

“We now realize how important it is to communicate in a healthy manner and to understand where the other person is coming from instead of dancing around in the same dance as always.” – V.R.

“I think we can better identify triggers and have respectful discussions. I realized the ‘big’ issues but didn’t realize how frequently the small issues cause us to do the demon dance and get on each other’s nerves.” – Participant

“This program helped my husband and I start to communicate differently and more meaningfully. I believe as we use these Conversations to learn more about each other, we will grow in our intimate connection and stop our demon dialogues.” – Debra

“A brilliant way to expose the issues beneath the surface and be given a tool set to practice communication in order to combat and disarm the demon dialogue.” – VGF & HBF

“Alex does a wonderful job. He has a low key approachable way about him that makes it easy to enter into the process. This came at just the right time for my wife and me. We both feel closer and more committed to our love.” – Brian

“Eye-opening, heart-opening experience. For the vast majority of us growing up in a sea of misinformation, this [Hold Me Tight] book should be required reading for everyone who wants the chance of unlocking the true possibilities in a relationship.” – David

“This program really helped my husband and I open up and talk about issues in our marriage–both strengths and weaknesses. We were able to verbalize one another’s needs by using tools and dialogues taught in this course.” – Participant

“The workshop is so helpful in building a stronger relationship. It gives me hope to know there is real practical help and tools for couples. Alex is a great facilitator, professional, and builds safety for couples to share their struggles.”  – Therapist Observer

“This workshop gave us important steps to create our own relationship dance. Thank you!” – D.M.

“After struggling for years in our marriage and trying many strategies and therapists, this two-day workshop brought us a connection we haven’t had in a very long time or never. I am so hopeful about our future together.”  – M.G.

“Wonderful format. Safe environment. Great guidance and instruction to create and improve our relationship to form lasting connections both physically and emotionally. I would recommend to any couple no matter where you are in your relationship. We used this as premarital counseling, and it would complement any work towards preparation for marriage. Thank you Alex!” – Miaken

“Prior to coming here, I was a bit doubtful that such a short class could have such a great impact, to be transformative. Seeing the video illustrations of real-life couples, talking through them as a class and then being able to practice implementing the principles was extremely effective and powerful. It is taking us to a different level in our relationship.” – M.M.

“This seminar and the book provided me with the knowledge that how I was feeling was justified and not that I was just ‘crazy.’ We were able to find the right descriptive words to be able to talk our way to our deeper emotions and hurts.”  – Participant

“My wife and I have been going to EFT treatment for several months, and we were looking for a way to kickstart our therapy and accomplish more in our therapy faster. This gave us a good understanding of the EFT process.”  – B

“This workshop will take you on a wild ride that if you just hold on and trust the process, it will take you to a new place in your most important relationship.” – AB

“Alex delivers the processes presented in Hold Me Tight in a very non-threatening manner. He has a very calm, well-paced demeanor that allows a person to feel comfortable in the process of analyzing oneself.” – J & B

“This course helped my wife and I create a safe place to share deeper emotional needs within our relationship.” – Participant

“My hope is that we can begin to share what we are truly feeling rather than getting upset or hurt about not being understood when we are not actually stating what is really going on.” – Javier

“This program has really given me/us a sense of hope. I think it’s truly the beginning to our ‘happily ever after.’ Thank you Alex, from the bottom of our hearts.”  – A.S. & S.S.

“This workshop made me recognize that other ‘normal’ (ha ha) couples face these same issues and problems that we do. This gave me confidence that if I implement the tools, we can have increased joy and partnership in our marriage.” – Participant

“This workshop gave me tools to better understand my issues and to better manage my communication with my wife and how to better love her by understanding what she feels and needs.” – DB

“This program was 1) Informative: I learned lots of tools for dealing with my own emotions and the emotions between my partner and me. 2) Processual: My partner and I worked through major issues throughout the weekend. 3) Transformation: I feel my relationship is stronger after this workshop and that we have the tools to keep and grow that strength.” – Participant

“By delving in to something so deep for two whole days, it really allows you to let down your guard and take a deep look at yourself, your needs, your partner, and your relationship. This would have been extremely difficult to do at home alone as it’s easier to just ignore any difficulties that come up. Come in without expectations and let the conversations lead you to where you need to go.” – R & A

“This workshop has given me hope and potentially saved our relationship. It was worth every minute, tear and penny. Thank you for everything!” – Z

“It gives couples a framework, and practicum, for greater closeness and tighter love.” J.W.

“Reading the book two times over the last year was helpful and eye opening. This intensive was an incredible tool to put the print from book into action. The Conversations on the DVD and the class interaction and discussion helped build a solid foundation to build and heal our damaged hearts.” – T.C.

“This program helped me to communicate in a more effective way to my wife because we started identifying when I was isolating and why. By identifying this, we were able to discuss topics that we had not touched in years in a peaceful manner.”  – Rene

“The exercises provided my husband and me with a framework to explore and get to the center of our core issues–the things that had wounded us and continued to do so. Seeing other couples explores themselves and seeing ourselves in their stories really helped us to recognize our own feelings and to not feel all alone. The practice sessions allowed us to slow down and become aware of how we were feeling in certain situations and then to share that with our partner and ask for what we need.”  – Barb

“This program showed us that even in our most painful and disconnected moments, there is a way for us to find a way forward, a way to come together again, and for love to flow again – that there is hope.”  – Marcus

“We as couples all have problems. Recognizing them and being willing to work on them in a controlled setting allows you to open up and be more vulnerable.”  – B

“Coming to the workshop helped to demystify the problems in our relationship–why and how we were getting stuck, how we can go about resolving it, and pulling out of our cycle, and discovering the underlying emotions and fears that hold us back and stand in our way.”  – Anne

“We had such a great relationship before the class, but the class gave us space and the opportunity to explore each other’s feelings at a much deeper level.”  – G.N.

“I was able to talk to my wife about things that I was doing and we were able to deal with them and get a huge jump on getting back to where we were in the beginning of our relationship. We are on the road to having an amazing relationship again.” – M.D.

“This program provided a safe container to explore fears, needs, hopes, and dreams. Thank you for holding space for powerful, safe, sacred time to delve deep into healing, growth, and connection. This was a positive step forward in our marriage. Thank you!” – Participant

“The tools in the Conversations combined with the guided discussions helped me to get to know my husband on another level, to understand him as an emotional being. It gave us the space to truly heal some major trauma we’ve been working on. THANK YOU!”  – Participant

“This program helped my partner and I open our eyes and explore one another on a more emotional level which allowed a better understanding of the issues we face in our relationship. It showed us that our arguments went deeper than what we were fighting about.”  – Z & G

“As an engaged couple, this makes us feel more confident in marriage. We learned amazing tools to take with us and are confident this process will help our future be a more positive one.”  – Participant

“We went in as a good couple in a strong relationship with no issues and still benefitted. We came out of the weekend as a stronger couple having discussed things we wouldn’t have discussed otherwise.”  – Participant

“The framework of this program along with Alex’s support and guidance allowed us to co-create a safe place and tools to overcome our biggest/hardest issue in our marriage. We feel so blessed to have had this come into our lives.” – M.P.

“EFT is a realistic, efficient viewpoint on relationships. It is a helpful way of breaking down problems and making them seem approachable instead of a big problem without a starting point for resolve.”  – Whitney

“My benefit this weekend, besides the exercises, was learning to slow down and let my wife know what’s on my mind. If I don’t present myself in a way that she understands what I need, I’m actually setting us up for failure.”  – Randy

“This class will improve your marriage, your family and your life! You can’t afford to wait any longer. You have nothing but your loneliness and pain to lose. Commit and get your
life and marriage back on track.”  – B & D

“This workshop opened my eyes to ‘basic’ but ‘buried’ human needs and emotions. This course is excellent for couples about to get married or 40 years in!” – Rusty

“This program has shown me how to communicate and better understand her. It has also provided me with the tools to get out of the ‘rut’ we fall into.” – Participant

“This was the best program I have ever seen. Alex did a phenomenal job guiding us and teaching us.”  – M & A

“My fiance and I took the Hold Me Tight workshop as an alternative to pre-marital counseling through our church. We loved it! We had no idea what to expect but walk away with a greater understanding of ourselves as individuals, as a couple, and what our needs and sore points are. We highly, highly recommend it!”  – K.S.

“Watching the couples [in the DVD] identify and then work through their feelings was really helpful. This will give us an example of what it looks like to slow down our conversations, go deeper, better understand our partners, and become better attached.”  – Participant

“Emotional connection with your spouse, when discussing ‘hot topics’, trumps content of discussion. Remember always how you say things.” – Participant

“This experience allowed me to see my partner’s viewpoint, it allowed me to get out of my own head and step into his which allowed me to understand him better which resulted in showing up for us and our relationship!” – KE

“I gained insight into how behaviors impact the relationship both positive and negative and the importance of a personal interface and listening closely with what your partner says.”  – Participant

“This couples program has a powerful impact on helping couples identify, fix, and maintain long-term emotional bonding.”  – Participant

“I liked the fact that this workshop provided me with tools to address situations which will arise in our marriage. One of the most important ones is to stop and take a breath before saying or doing anything.” – E.N.

Contact Alex today to see which class, seminar or workshop could fit best for you!